My latest piece is up on Catholic Match, wherein I advise people to get into fights: Our Lord says, “Blessed are the Peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God.” Unfortunately, we have a tendency to confuse ‘peace’ with simply the avoidance of conflict. But there are two ways people avoid conflict; the first is … Continue reading Catholic Match Piece on Why Fighting is Good For You
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CM Post on Breaking the Rules
My latest Catholic Match post is up, wherein I advise people to break the rules in dating: You are a unique soul. The person on the other end of the screen is likewise unique. You are both looking for someone who might be the One. There’s no formula for that; no system, no instructions, no … Continue reading CM Post on Breaking the Rules
Talking Strength at Catholic Match
Here's one that was percolating in my mind for a while before I was able to put it up; discussing the concept of strength, some reasons men should seek to acquire it, and, as a byproduct, the contemporary tendency to prioritize comfortably ambiguous ideas of 'inner strength' over, you know, the kind you can't fake. … Continue reading Talking Strength at Catholic Match
New Catholic Match Post
I saw some people discussing this on the Catholic Match forums a while back and gave the question some thought. The results are now up: The basic version is that men are more physically oriented, women more relationally oriented. A woman typically wants to learn more about a man’s character, personality, and capabilities. Thus, what … Continue reading New Catholic Match Post
Cultivating a Heroic Imagination at Catholic Match
My latest 'Catholic Match' piece is up; this one about the benefits of cultivating a heroic imagination. Or, in other words, I'm writing in praise of fantasizing: It has been said that, “as a man thinketh, so he is,” but perhaps it would be equally accurate to say, “as a man imagineth, so he becomes.” … Continue reading Cultivating a Heroic Imagination at Catholic Match
Catholic Match Post on Knowing Your Date’s Career
My latest post is up at 'Catholic Match,' about the importance of knowing what you're getting into with your significant other's career. The simple fact is that some careers are harder on relationship than others; some jobs simply require long hours, an unpredictable schedule, high stress, and a deep commitment. There’s really nothing anyone can … Continue reading Catholic Match Post on Knowing Your Date’s Career
Long-Distance Date Ideas at Catholic Match
My latest Catholic Match post suggests a few different long-distance dating ideas: 4. Video-Game Date If you can’t meet in real life, set up a multiplayer server just for two and meet in the digital world. Like the previous entries, this gives you a chance to share something you enjoy with the person you’re interested in, and … Continue reading Long-Distance Date Ideas at Catholic Match
Living in Interesting Times at Catholic Match
I missed that this piece went up a few days ago: talking about how to live in "Interesting Times." I get to quote "Lord of the Rings" a lot in this one: The first thing we ought to get clear right from the start is this: our circumstances are nothing new. Certainly the specifics are … Continue reading Living in Interesting Times at Catholic Match
Discussing Changes at Catholic Match
In today's post at 'Catholic Match,' I give advice on when you should ask your significant other to change: In the first place, let’s be clear that you do have the right to ask your significant other to ‘change’ in some way. When you enter a relationship with someone, your life is no longer quite your own, and … Continue reading Discussing Changes at Catholic Match
It’s a Wonderful Life at Catholic Match
If anyone were to ask what I think the best movie ever made is (understanding there's objectively no such thing), I would probably say It's a Wonderful Life. I might do a piece going into why I think this, but in the meantime I get to give some idea of why in today's piece on Catholic Match. I … Continue reading It’s a Wonderful Life at Catholic Match
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